Category Archives: Family

So much hope, by Dawn

It’s a Wrap!
Four days of in-home filming finished at Joe and Dodee’s.  I would never want to minimize the work that was done there with the mere word “amazing”, however, when God is in the healing, miracles abound.
We started with our usual porch chat this morning with the therapists evaluating how far the family has come and reviewing what the last day’s goals should be.  Our superhero trio jumped in today full force to be sure the family was left with healing, hope and life application tools.
I was literally choked up to the point of sobbing as we shot the final scene.  Dad Joe spoke for the first time since I’ve met him from a new place, his heart.  He was no longer a purely “cerebral functioner.”   (Please note I make up my own observation words that are not clinical in nature.)  Mom Dodee, looked ten years lighter and younger (although she always looked fantastic) as it was apparent that she released years of buried pain during her “intensive” emotional mat therapy.
Jacob, their oldest son had a smile that was genuine, unlike the one he “wore” when I first met him.  Sweet Caleb continued to radiate joy and I do believe would love to follow Colin our director into a place of film production.  He had complet camera fascination.
The therapists seemed very content with how far this family had come during the four packed days of therapy.  All of them concurring that healing was in process and that our first family on the Recovery Bus has moved into a place of hope from frustration.
I am grateful and awe struck at what was accomplished.  It was much more than we ever anticipated going in to this project.  Please keep us in prayer as we go into post-production.  Can’t wait to see where the bus goes next!
Seeing the miracle,
Dawn

A porch session on the last day of filming

What a ride! by Dr Kendra

What a ride!  The journey with this family has truly been incredible.  They went from disconnected and discouraged to full of love, joy and hope.
One of my favorite moments was seeing the youngest son, Caleb, go from being a “loser” (throwing every game of cards with our host, Dawn) to being a true winner and superhero in his sand play and games on the last day. With God’s help, things really came together.  And the rest of us seemed to grow right alongside the family.  It has been a real joy having a front seat on this bus.
Since dad has a history of stopping things after six weeks, the true test will be whether or not this family can continue in the progress they have made.  Terry and I will be doing some follow up sessions and keeping you posted.
Stay tuned for more updates, and keep coming back for live footage as it becomes available.  We look forward to seeing you on the road!
May God bless you on your journey,

KK

 

Dr Kendra and Caleb on the Recovery Bus

Day Three Conclusion, by Bryan

Awesome day 3 conclusion.

This family has worked so hard for their healing. Mom said its the first time in 22 yrs that she has seen dad cry. Amazing healing time. Dad stated having opened up more than in 58 previous years.

Today we will secure the foundation. Dig into some Post Principle Parenting and get the family a big Post Institute resource package for continued support, education and encouragement.

Choose Love,
B.
recovery bus therapy

Day Three Morning, by Bryan

Good morning. It’s time for another day, would say on the bus but I guess we aren’t actually on the bus now are we?

So back in the home for another day, first full day with dad not here so will prove to be the most important day.

Parents are the foundation of the family and without a secure base all else is just another nail trying to hold together broken wood.

Talk to you later,
B.

A Blow-up, a Bump and a Game of War, by Dawn Maxwell

Day two on the Recovery Bus started with a group pow wow outside of Joe and Dodee’s home, the idea being to strategize our game plan for the day.  It began well with a recap of what’s been accomplished and where we have to dig in…that mostly being Dad Joe.

All three therapists expressed concern of his absence during the intense family sessions and what appeared to be avoidance…but I’m not a doc.  Terry expressed the need to meet Joe where he is at before digging into too deeply.  I believe our other two pros may feel differently.

Surprisingly we had some very colorful banter and disagreement between Dr. Kendra and Bryan (our unconventional maverick) in therapeutic styles relating on how to treat Dodee.  I must say the sparks flew between the two of them and it was fascinating to see two mental health folk go at it and observe their resolution which ended in an hugging-it-out session.  Wild!

This exchange caught the production crew, our executive producer and myself off guard as we watched Bryan’s hashing it out with our beloved “Earth Mama” Doc (who held her own, I must say).

Later in the day I personally enjoyed a game of War with sweet little eight-year-old Caleb using his Spider-Man cards and at last count I do believe I was ahead.  More tomorrow as we enter day three, our first full day with all four family members present.

Let’s keep praying we keep this bus in the station long enough to get the whole family on board…therapeutically and recovery-wise that is.

Hanging on to that hope,
Dawn

Day Two of Filming, By Bryan

Well wrapped up day 2 and it was a bit more of an uphill climb today.

Since this was the second day dad was not present for the majority of the work. I found myself feeling quite frustrated that dad (Joe) was not making a bigger commitment to the family but as I like to say…emotional reactivity stems from unfinished business…so I had to look at that within myself and realize that I’m feeling stressed by having to work differently than normal which also stresses my need for predictability. For this insight into myself I get to be thankful to the dad who’s being asked to stretch his comfort also.

Finished up my work by 5 and had to bear the LA traffic for a couple hours back to my friends house where I’m staying…but its all good because their two lil’ girls Avah and Oona always greet me at the door with smiles which releases my oxytocin….and ahhh just like that the world is right.

Looking forward to a night of rest and contemplation on where the family needs to go for a paradigm shifting breakthrough.

Choose Love,
B.

Day One of Filming, By Dawn

The recovery bus reality tv

Dodee and Dawn

And we’re off…
It was a completely thrilling (and hot) first day of shooting the Recovery Bus.  Going in I wasn’t sure exactly how things would play out.  God was definitely with us the entire day as every event unfolded.
First, I did pre-interviews with all four family members to hear their sides of the story, and find out where they would each like to experience healing.  It was wonderful to see their open hearts, admitted brokenness and desire to get well.  Our three uber-hip therapists watched the live feed in a back room (sorta, Randy, Paula and Simon style) and began formulating their plan of “wellness” for our family.
Next, Bryan did an “intensive” (a special form of emotional mat work) with our super cool mom Dodee.  She had an amazing break through and although I have personally experienced this form of therapy myself, as it helps one release past traumas, I have never quite seen it unfold like this.  Unconventional, yes.  Shocking, maybe.  Healing, absolutely.  After a good three hours, I could literally see a change of awareness in her I’m certain will be life changing in years to come.
The boys Jacob and Caleb were sweet, articulate and willing.  Kendra did some fun play therapy with them using sand toys.  Her unique “earth mother” style has an amazing way of getting kids to open up and share what they otherwise may not so they can learn at an early age to share and express their feelings in a healthy way.
At the end of the day, Dad Joe went into a session with our Terry whom I affectionately refer to as our “nutcracker,”  because we give him our hardest cases to crack.  (Nothing personal Joe.)  That session was still going on when I left tonight and I can’t wait to get back there in the morning to see how this story unravels.  Healing is happening.
The bus has left the station!
Seeing the hope,
Dawn

Excited for the Journey, by Kendra Klassen

I feel honored and humbled to be part of the Recovery Bus team.  What a privilege to participate in such a unique and awesome project!  I applaud the courage of our first family in being willing to share their lives with us all.  I am sure many will identify with their struggles, and I hope that those of you who do will support them with your comments.

We are all on this road together.  Each of us has hardship and pain and adversity to overcome.  It is my hope that as we travel with the Recovery Bus, we can encourage one another to keep on keeping on, knowing there is hope and healing available, sometimes just around the corner.

I am constantly surprised and thrilled to see how God reveals himself in the most unexpected ways and times, just when we need it most.  I trust the Recovery Bus will be one of these experiences and I can’t wait to see how the journey unfolds.

Looking forward to the ride,

KK

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